Each time I have been working on reaching a big goal or change in my life I have always been brought to a place of surrender.
Its like you have come to a place where you know you have given it your all and there’s nothing left to do. That’s surrender.
Many women I work with say they don’t know how to surrender. Having been brought to this place in my life a number of times I want to share 3 simple techniques to help you to surrender.
For me surrender is not giving up. It is letting go of control of the outcome and how a situation will turn out. It’s when you stop forcing or searching for a solution and allowing miracles to happen.
Here are three simple steps:
The first step is become aware that you are ready to surrender. That you have done everything in your capacity to bring about the change and you may not have achieved the desired outcome you wanted in your personal life or in your business.
The second step is giving up the struggle. Imagine you decide to keep moving forward and allowing the divine plan to unfold.
The third step is to have faith. Most of your efforts or actions may have been fear based. Fear of it not happening or thoughts of not getting the desired result. Sometimes this can be totally unconscious. Imagine if you can put as much effort into faith as you have put into worry or fear. It would have a totally different effect.
These are simple steps yet not always easy in the midst of your daily life. There is definitely an art in surrendering and I am hoping from this you can start to practice these steps and start to see the changes. When I surrender I hand over control to my higher self. This may be the Universe, Spirit, God or Buddha for you. It is a spiritual practice that becomes stronger as you practice it more. I would love to hear your thoughts and experience of surrendering.
Find out more about surrendering and opening up to new possibilities in your business and life at my upcoming Beyond Boundaries Workshop on the 7th June in Dublin. The workshop is for 5 soulful female entrepreneurs ready to create financial abundance in their business and life. You can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or book a free Possibility Discovery Call here to see is this your next step.
Fidelma Greene is a Conscious Business Mentor based in Dublin who combines her leadership skills, business experience and intuitive gifts to help female entrepreneurs to expand and grow their businesses to the next level.
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